re: what do you do? (vent. long.)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha & Nika:</b>" I think before leaving, you should exhaust the last option of sitting him down and telling him all of ... [snip!] ... him that the disappointments have just become too much and it's upsetting you to a point where you're ready to call it quits.."</blockquote>


 

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" it's definitely just part of my personality. if i am not pregnant, i might be able to keep it together ... [snip!] ... at a loss for how to make it better. i told him how. i told him the one thing i cannot deal with is when he won't talk to me. "</blockquote>


This sounds very similar to how things go down with my SO when we fight... We are at a point that neither of us can express ourselves the way we want and it always results in miscommunication and anger and tears, then by the time we realise, a while bunch of crap has been said that was absolutely unnecessary.

From an outsiders perspective all these people can tell you what a douche he sounds like and you can feel angry but you already said you don't want to go... Something is keeping you there... Try something new to salvage what you have, exhaust your options before calling it quits. We're just about to start counselling, is this something you guys could think about?

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" it's definitely just part of my personality. ... [snip!] ... your options before calling it quits. We're just about to start counselling, is this something you guys could think about?"

i was actually thinking about it. i'm really not sure if he would go. i feel like he wouldn't want to because maybe he doesn't see anything he is doing as wrong because i am usually in the wrong, to him. but it is worth a shot to ask.

Quoting Kelly-Ann Louise:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" and this morning, to try to still be nice, ... [snip!] ... tell them to f#@k right off. So don't let the person who is meant to love you the most treat you like that.. its even worse  "

i see what you mean. and i agree. the person who is supposed to love me shouldn't/wouldn't do this stuff to me. that is why i question if he really does love/care for me.