Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" sometimes the first time in bed sucks. is he on any meds that make it harder for him sexually? (some ... [snip!] ... erections or get off) dont assume you did anything wrong but it might get better after you get to know each other's turn ons."
Quoting *PeanutButter*:" I wouldn't worry Sometimes guys just can't get off,just like women...he'll last week my husband went limp during sex and couldn't continue And you're not a cow,you're beautiful"
Quoting allllison ♥ [28wks]:" Idk if he's on and meds that would prevent it. He says it happens alot though "
Quoting MommaNoodle:" well, if he said that's normal for him, i would take it at face value, i guess. i might feel a little bad about myself, too, but.... you can always try again, right?"
Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" i dated a guy who was on antidepressants. we tried having sex, he kept going limp and then he stopped ... [snip!] ... (to see if he could deal without taking it daily) and he still had trouble getting off. it wasnt my fault. he just couldnt."
Quoting allllison ♥ [28wks]:" "
This only happened to my husband when he was drinking
Quoting MommaNoodle:" this happened to me with my daughter's father the first time we were 'together' like that, lol. it wouldn't ... [snip!] ... your guy isn't able to. but, if you really like him, keep seeing him, and keep trying and see how it goes. good luck to you!"