Getting ready to start trying again

My husband and I have two beautiful kids when we were dating 11 and a half years ago (married for 10 years now) we said we wanted 3 or 4 kids we never imagined we would have problems getting pregnant what so ever. Well 3 months before we got married we started trying to get pregnant and it took 5 and a half years of trying for our first and 1 misscarriage and then we started trying right away when our daughter was 5 weeks old after talking with my OB he said we would be fine to try and it took us 3 years 4 months to get pregnant with our son and another misscarriage before him.. Our daughter is 4 years old and our son is 3 months old I know some may think we are nuts or what not but we don't get pregnant so easily.. I asked my OB when we could start trying for a 3rd and he told me I should be fine after 3 months because I had a post partum hemmorage ended up with a blood transufsion, an epidural spinal headache and I lost all my stitches and my epsiotomy tore open. (this is prob tmi but I was constipated is the only thing I can think of to the reason of loesing stitches) I have been afraid to do anything since having him though because the tear never closed fully.. I have PCOS and endometriosis narrow tubes and a male factor I will be 30 in Feb.. I'm hoping it wont take as long to get pregnant this time around maybe only a year this time? I can hope my husband and I feel very blessed to have our two kids and are so so grateful to have them but we have dreams just like anyone else! Right now we are just waiting to see what happens with my back to see if I need another surgery or not

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaylees mommy:</b>" My husband and I have two beautiful kids when we were dating 11 and a half years ago (married for 10 ... [snip!] ... just like anyone else! Right now we are just waiting to see what happens with my back to see if I need another surgery or not"</blockquote>




I wish you the best of luck. I also had problems with having more children my second one took me 11 yrs after a miscarriage. My periods were screwed up and they also said i had pcos. But after I had my second daughter I got pregnant really easy and im in my 30's. Im on baby # 4.

Quoting Jamie Vincent-Nead:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaylees mommy:</b>" My husband and I have two beautiful kids ... [snip!] ... and they also said i had pcos. But after I had my second daughter I got pregnant really easy and im in my 30's. Im on baby # 4."

Wow that is awesome!! I'm hoping it will be easier this time around!