Hi, I'm new here (have been browsing a while but only just registered) and wanted some advice from you all, but warning it may be TMI lol. Anyways, it's about my husband's orgasms. His penis gets really sensitive when he starts to orgasm, so much so that it can be almost painful for him sometimes. When he starts to cum, I have to completely stop touching his penis, or if we're having sex he has to pull out so that it isn't being touched while he cums.
So that gets me to my questions!
1.) Is there anything we can do to lessen his sensitivity at that moment, or make it so that it isn't uncomfortable for him to finish inside of me? We recently started TTC, and obviously pulling out isn't the best method to get pregnant. He *can* finish inside of me now, but he says that his orgasms don't feel good when he does, and I can tell that the sensitivity makes it kind of uncomfortable for him (even if we stop moving). He's willing to do it but I would like for him to be able to enjoy it, I feel so bad for him lol!
2.) He is the only sexual partner I've had but I was wondering, is this normal? Like, do most guys get so sensitive when they start to orgasm? And what do most guys do when they cum, do they usually want all the stimulation to stop when they start to orgasm, like he does? I'm just curious as to what's normal in that regard.
He should see a doctor. It could be something serious. It shouldn't hurt a man to be stimulated while cumming. Though it is normal for them to be super sensitive and uncomfortable after they are done cumming.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommeee™:</b>" I'd tell him to seek a doctor and get an opinion by them. The only time it gets too sensitive to touch is after he has his orgasm, at least the "head" is too sensitive to touch afterwards. "</blockquote>
I had an ex (my first) who was very sensitive when he started to cum. I was surprised that my fiancÚ wasn't like that cause I assumed all men were. Sometimes I am still afraid I'm hurting my SO when he comes (like if I'm giving head or a hand job) as soon as he starts coming its like idk whether or not to keep going or stop immediately as he starts to go.
Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:" He should see a doctor. It could be something serious. It shouldn't hurt a man to be stimulated while ... [snip!] ... be stimulated while cumming. Though it is normal for them to be super sensitive and uncomfortable after they are done cumming."
Well it doesn't actually hurt him, it is just really uncomfortable...in his words it's like being tickled half to death lol. I kind of know what he means since I get sensitive too, but for me it's after my orgasm is over like you said...and probably not quite to the same degree as him. I don't know that it's anything serious since he's been that way his whole life, and his orgasms still feel fine as long as he isn't being stimulated.