Quoting ♥ laura-marie + 1:" I know but sometimes its harder than that. Id say no and try and move but it didnt make a difference. ... [snip!] ... like I felt. like you have to do it. I thought if I didnt i was a bad girlfriend or he would leave me so i wouldn't fight him. "
This is exactly how it was for me and my ex...except he knew exactly what he was doing. He'd make me feel like smurf for saying no, even if I was bawling my eyes out and told him to stop, he wouldn't. In OP's case, he might not realize or he might be more selfish with his own needs. OP- You need to talk to him, let him know exactly how you feel and tell him that what he's been doing is against your will (pretty much rape), and if he doesn't seem to care or act remorseful then most likely this is how he is and all he ever will be, then you should leave. I hope that he just doesn't realize how much he's hurt you and you guys can work everything out, good luck! Keep posted