My parents offer to babysit ALL the time. I'm not complaining at all about that, I do take them up on the offer about once a week or so. DH however seems to want them to watch her a lot more and he gets frustrated with me when I say no and that I want to keep her at home. Don't get me wrong he loves spending time with her and is a wonderful daddy but he makes me feel guilty when I don't take her to them. She's only 8 weeks old and I work 24 hour shifts so I am away from her a lot more than I want to be already!
I sort of know how you feel lol my mil wants dd every other weekend. We lived with them for a year so they went through the last part of the pregnancy and her first 8 months so now that we are not there they feel like the never see her (they see her AT LEAST once a week). She's 9 months so its a little different but I'm always getting snide comments from mil about how dd won't remember who they are
My sil always says that I ignore it cuz I don't really care lol.My sil is not the best person for my kids to remember. Anyway tho wouldn't worry about it I'd say if they wanted to see her they could visit