I feel like me and my SO have had no relationship since the baby. Our son is two now and he literally pays me no attention. I focus all my energy on work school and our baby so he's the only adult time I have I my life and that time is pretty non existent. We don't have any shows we watch watch together we don't have anything we like to do together I pretty much have to beg for sex but that got old so now my sex life is non existent too. Any remnants of a relationship between us has all been by my effort alone and I'm starting to get tired. The only reason I stay is for our son because he is a decent dad but I don't know if that's a good enough reason any more. I just don't know.... any advice or encouragement would be appreciated
Have you told him how you feel? That's how it was between DH and I when LO was first born, when I asked why he told me that he felt like all our attention was meant to be put on LO because she's a baby, he read a lot of stuff that could harm or cause a child to die in the first year and was just really freaked out.
Yea it's like a cycle I get really fed up and just stop all my efforts of having a relationship when he asks what's wrong I explain I get a date night then the next week it's back to the same. Never anything genuine. It's going on w.t years now and I'm really getting frustrated that things will never change.