sexy time?

Does it hurt your feelings when you get turned down for sex?

Cause it seriously bums me out.  

Yea, I hated getting turned down.  

I'm usually the one turning it down  

Yes! Especially when I try to do it all the time with my DH and then discover him getting off to porn instead. WTF?

Yes. I hate that.

If DH says no it's usually when he is playing COD so I just pout and get it. But it does feel like he is choosing the game over me, BUT I can use the time he turned me down as a pass card the next time he wants it and I don't. Maybe that's weird but that's how we work lol

Quoting Mom of 3 Little Boys!:" Yes! Especially when I try to do it all the time with my DH and then discover him getting off to porn instead. WTF?"

That would just make me cry. I over think everything tho so  

Especially right now. I'm super pregnant, and feel disgusting. He doesn't make me feel any better when he turns me down.  

Quoting Pnire:]:" That would just make me cry. I over think everything tho so  "

Yeah, I'm like that too but it also doesn't help that he watches stuff with girls that 'act' like they're under 18. Makes me at 31 feel really good about myself :/

Quoting Bop ✿:" I'm usually the one turning it down  "

I used to turn it down a lot, so this was probably coming... But we were living with his parents and his moms room was right NEXT to our room so it was way awkward..... Now we live in our own place and i feel like his sex drive is gone... Tear

The psst three weeks the excuse has been that its too hot ... Itll be intrresting what the excuse will be when it cools down

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 3 Little Boys!:</b>" Yeah, I'm like that too but it also doesn't help that he watches stuff with girls that 'act' like they're under 18. Makes me at 31 feel really good about myself :/"</blockquote>


  that's gross as smurf.

Quoting Mom of 3 Little Boys!:" Yeah, I'm like that too but it also doesn't help that he watches stuff with girls that 'act' like they're under 18. Makes me at 31 feel really good about myself :/"

I'm sorry  

I get when guys use visual aids when their SO isn't in the mood or not home or those sort of situations but when you've got someone at home willing.... I think it's kind of cruel. Maybe it's just me tho.

Quoting Ole' No Name:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 3 Little Boys!:</b>" Yeah, I'm like that too but it ... [snip!] ... like they're under 18. Makes me at 31 feel really good about myself :/"</blockquote>   that's gross as smurf."

You're telling me! He has an addiction and sneaks around behind my back to do it too. I told him if I caught him doing it one more time then I was GONE. He is lucky that I have not turned him in. Of course, I want my kids to be able to have a roof over their head and food in their stomach so thats why I never had.

No I understand that sometimes, one is too tired or whatever for sex. I myself, sometimes turn DH down so ...