TTC and scared?

posted 30th Dec
None of my LOs were planned, so Ive never TTC.

My youngest is 6 months and we have been talking about another baby. SO is almost 36 and we feel like if we dont have one soon (and this will be our last) he will get to that point where he will feel too old to have a little one around. I want another baby SO bad and all my kids are 18 months apart so this one wouldnt be any closer to my youngest than the others. Tonight SO said ok lets do it, no more condoms.

Now I'm freaked out. I want one..we want one. But yet I have this scared feeling, like if I get pregnant I will regret it...or I wont get pregnant again.

Maybe Im just not ready to TTC? I dont know if this is a normal feeling or not! It has me re thinking trying  
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 30th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting L&B +1:</b>" None of my LOs were planned, so Ive never TTC. My youngest is 6 months and we have been talking about ... [snip!] ... again. Maybe Im just not ready to TTC? I dont know if this is a normal feeling or not! It has me re thinking trying  "</blockquote>


Totally normal. We TTC this one. And then when that test popped up positive I was like oh crap for about two seconds, then I was beyond excited  
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I'm due September 4th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 30th Dec
If you're not sure.. I wouldn't do it.
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I have 2 kids & live in Alabama
posted 30th Dec
If you not reafy don'tdo it
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I'm due January 6th (it's a surprise), have 3 angel babies & live in Florida
posted 30th Dec
If you not reafy don'tdo it
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I'm due January 6th (it's a surprise), have 3 angel babies & live in Florida
posted 30th Dec
Quoting Bubba Monster's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting L&B +1:</b>" None of my LOs were planned, so Ive never TTC. ... [snip!] ... TTC this one. And then when that test popped up positive I was like oh crap for about two seconds, then I was beyond excited  "

Congrats!!! How long did it take to conceive? I think I'm worried we wont be able to get pregnant lol. My periods are kind of messed up now so I'm not even sure when I ovulate anymore!
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 30th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting L&B +1:</b>" Congrats!!! How long did it take to conceive? I think I'm worried we wont be able to get pregnant lol. My periods are kind of messed up now so I'm not even sure when I ovulate anymore!"</blockquote>




We were only trying since October. And my periods were out of whack cuz I had my mirena out in Sept. And I tracked my ovulation this past cycle and poof   pregnant. Lol.
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I'm due September 4th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 30th Dec
Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" If you're not sure.. I wouldn't do it."

I'm not sure if I'm sure. lol. I guess there are really 2 thoughts on my mind when I think about TTC. What my family and friends will think (I have a 3 1/2 yr old, almost 2 yr old and a 6 month old), and that we will try and not be able to get pregnant this time. We would probably be best to just ditch the bc and see where it takes us. No pressure. lol.
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 30th Dec
Quoting Bubba Monster's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting L&B +1:</b>" Congrats!!! How long did it take to conceive? ... [snip!] ... were out of whack cuz I had my mirena out in Sept. And I tracked my ovulation this past cycle and poof   pregnant. Lol."

eeek that is so exciting. My periods have ALWAYS been normal and I could always tell when I was ovulating. Since having my son, sometimes I miss periods and I can never tell when they are coming muchless when I'm ovulating! I have a feeling it would take a while to actually get pregnant without getting an ovulation kit or something. You lucked out  
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 30th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting L&B +1:</b>" eeek that is so exciting. My periods have ALWAYS been normal and I could always tell when I was ovulating. ... [snip!] ... have a feeling it would take a while to actually get pregnant without getting an ovulation kit or something. You lucked out  "</blockquote>




Before my son I was very regular and knew when I was ovulating. But that anniversary sex will give you surprise babies... lol. And this one I just bought dollar store ovulation tests and they worked   I expected it to take longer but I'm glad it didn't.
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I'm due September 4th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 31st Dec
Mandy I still think you are crazy!  
But just go for it!
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I have 1 child & live in Minnesota
posted 31st Dec
Oh hun, no one is ever "ready" to conceive! Trust your body. When it happens, all the right hormones will flow to your brain and your body will prepare you to do whatever you need to do to care for that new baby!  
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I live in Miami, Florida
posted 31st Dec
Quoting L&B +1:" Congrats!!! How long did it take to conceive? I think I'm worried we wont be able to get pregnant lol. My periods are kind of messed up now so I'm not even sure when I ovulate anymore!"


buy an ovulation kit.
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I'm due August 31st, have 2 kids & live in Alabama
posted 31st Dec
Quoting CandiGaga:" Oh hun, no one is ever "ready" to conceive! Trust your body. When it happens, all the right hormones ... [snip!] ... hormones will flow to your brain and your body will prepare you to do whatever you need to do to care for that new baby!  "

  thank you!
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I have 3 kids & live in Wisconsin
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