re: How old were you....

Quoting Heather ♥:" i guess i'm the only one who didn't give a smurf about the partying stage of life lol. got married august after my 18th bday (may) and 2013 we will be married for 6 years."

Honestly....you didnt miss smurf. I overpartied my freshman year of college, mostly because I was made to feel like thats what people my age should be doing. Now Im like smurf that smurf...I just want to smoke a doob, sip some wine, and watch movies lol.

By the time I'm 30 I'll have already spent over half of my life with DH. I think that's pretty flipping cool.   I'm keeping him.

Quoting Callista Hall-Confere:" Us too!! Well I was 15 he was 18 when we got together. We will be together 10 years in May just had ... [snip!] ... just had our first baby in March. We got to enjoy each other for a while which was nice too. Definitely don't see it anymore."

it will be 10 years for us next november, seems like forever ago...so much has happened since then.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*~HeatherC~*~:</b>" Most everyone got married so YOUNG! Not saying its a bad thing. I have noticed that a lot of people in the US get married a lot younger than they do here. I was 28 when I got married and DH was 30."</blockquote>


That is not the norm. Maybe on BG but not generally in the US.

Quoting *Lindsey*(12 weeks):" i never did the partying stage. I was never a drinker or a partyer...I have more fun now that im older ... [snip!] ... i ever did when i was 18 and in my early 20's. I think the older we get the funner we get and can do it with class as well! LOL"

yup! i go out sometimes (well, inbetween my 2nd and 3rd pregnancies) but it was like a once a month thing. i don't get smurffaced, have a hangover and forget what i did drunk either so it's not like i just want to get hammered.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" Honestly....you didnt miss smurf. I overpartied my freshman year of college, mostly because I was made ... [snip!] ... people my age should be doing. Now Im like smurf that smurf...I just want to smoke a doob, sip some wine, and watch movies lol."

i don't smoke weed at all and have only been extremely drunk once. when i do go out, i drink to get a buzz and that's it. i like to dance more than anything. it is a rare occasion, though.

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" Honestly....you didnt miss smurf. I overpartied my freshman year of college, mostly because I was made ... [snip!] ... people my age should be doing. Now Im like smurf that smurf...I just want to smoke a doob, sip some wine, and watch movies lol."

Haha Sounds like my kinda night!!

my "partying" stage was my college, spreading my wings, finding myself and establishing my place in the world stage. I enjoyed every bit of it.

Quoting Heather ♥:" yup! i go out sometimes (well, inbetween my 2nd and 3rd pregnancies) but it was like a once a month ... [snip!] ... thing. i don't get smurffaced, have a hangover and forget what i did drunk either so it's not like i just want to get hammered."

yeah we dont really go out..but more so drink and party around the house, in the backyard, with our parents out at the lake in the summer. Not in bars and stuff. i get fun drunk but know my limit and im never hung over anymore...its kinda awesome. The only time i get hungover is if i do shots...which i dont cause they are sick! lol

Quoting the grace life:" By the time I'm 30 I'll have already spent over half of my life with DH. I think that's pretty flipping cool.   I'm keeping him. "

I think thats awesome. I love the security of being in a stable relationship/marriage

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" I think thats awesome. I love the security of being in a stable relationship/marriage"

  
Me too.

Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*~HeatherC~*~:</b>" Most everyone got married so YOUNG! Not ... [snip!] ... was 28 when I got married and DH was 30."</blockquote> That is not the norm. Maybe on BG but not generally in the US."

Definitely. People look at us like we have ten heads when we tell them we've almost been married 7 years. They don't believe us.

I never really "partied" either. I've always felt like I was an old lady haha - stay at home with a book has always been good enough for me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting the grace life:</b>" Definitely. People look at us like we have ten heads when we tell them we've almost been married 7 years. They don't believe us. "</blockquote>




That is so rare, congrats!

It takes a special combo of people to make it work like that, how wonderful you found it so young.

And on another more immature note...Im kind of hurt by the fact that my sister and I are the same age however when I talk about marriage my mom about curls up into a ball, but because my sister has a child by her boyfriend she supports the idea.