Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" id be beyond pissed. I never say anything bad about my ex infront of my kids cause that is their dad ... [snip!] ... say anything bad about me in front of them. I am lucky though cause i get along with my exes mom very well and were very close"
My daughter has never heard one negative thing about me from my ex husband or from me about him. I don't think that he has any idea that his mother has done this. My only concern is that if I say something to him, and he says something to his mother, she will continue to say worse things about me and tell my daughter not to say anything. :-/ That is what my biggest fear is that they will try to start my daughter having "secrets" from me. Which, up till now, there are none and I don't want that to change.