re: I really HATE him.

Oh my Jesus :/ I would never ever ever ever ever ever EVER stay with a person that did that to me. Never never ever! I don't even wanna stay with my husband when he's being a dumbass. I don't deal with those bs. Go to your family. Stay away from that maniac. You need to leave. Go to a shelter or something. When he's at work. Pack! Get all baby's needs and your needs and be gone! Money if possible.

Do something before you get out. Command will help you.