Quoting onebabylove:" Oh geeze. Yes, he has seen her 2 times a week for a while. I thought if he did not agree then we would ... [snip!] ... than her fathers job. I just do not know what to do. I do not see how people can be stuck in one state and not be able to move."
Despite the fact that you were actually trying to kidnapping his child.
What you did was thoughtless and irresponsible.
Father's have rights as well, and the fact that you've just openly stated he had visitation.
How would your child feel to loose her father?
How would you feel if he tried to do the same thing to you?
If anything, I suspect the judge is going to come down HARD on you for intending to leave the state without even informing her father.
Whoever gave you the advise to just leave is an smurf.
Tell your husband to pack up his smurf, quit his job and move back because you are looking at MONTHS of time spent in court trying to get this sorted, and at the end of the day unless this guy is completely unfit.. It's very unlikely they'll let you take his child away from him.