Quoting onebabylove:" Oh geeze. Yes, he has seen her 2 times a week for a while. I thought if he did not agree then we would ... [snip!] ... than her fathers job. I just do not know what to do. I do not see how people can be stuck in one state and not be able to move."
So... you were just going to leave to evade the courts even though he was seeing her two times a week? You think something as crappy as "Well her stepfathers job is better" is a good reason to just up and move?
Im sorry I dont agree with you as well. You purposefully didnt tell him because you knew he could hold you in the state. This wasnt a case of a father never seeing his child... he was seeing his child two times a week. And then you move and say "Oh well Im willing for vacations and holidays" as if that makes it better."
Im sorry but I do NOT agree with you at all. You should of gone to court before. Not leave in hopes that you could file for custody once you move when the father was seeing his child two times a week.