Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" When you stop trying, it will happen. Stressing about it will do nothing but make it harder and make you resent others for having their children."
Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" I already resent them. I just want to bawl my eyes out everytime I see this on fb. I don't want to delete ... [snip!] ... I just recently started ovulating again so all those months of trying were wasted because my body decided to act stupid."
Quoting one of each 4 me:" i getupset about this stuff too. i want anlther kid and i get super jealous about other people who don't ... [snip!] ... to not have more kids b/c of how bad the pregnancies are. its just upsetting to me, so i totally get where you are coming from."Wow I"m sorry you're having such a hard time of it. I just hope if and when you do get pregnant again this time it won't be hard for you. I had pretty easy pregnancies myself with the 2 I have now and the one I lost. I didn't have a long pregnancy this last time since I lost him at 16 weeks but in that time I barely had symptoms. Since our loss though my husband is completely different. He's mean sometimes now. I know he's hurting but I think he needs to come out with his feelings. I'm thinking that could be the cause of our fertility issues too. His frustrations are getting in the way and it's lowering his fertility.
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Do you have PCOS? Maybe try clomid?"
Quoting [JadeLee]:" It has only been since September for us. But I was thinking the other day how I don't smurfing get it ... [snip!] ... make sense to me either, but I shouldn't bitch because it hasn't been that long. I completely get what you are saying though!"Yea I get what you're saying. Even though it hasn't been that long for you when you are wanting it then it can seem like a lifetime. I know we may need to get some things worked out before we bring a baby in the world but the things we need to work out are not that difficult. It would be like babysitting duty while we work, you know stuff like that. My job has maternity leave and my husband have medical at his job so that isn't a problem. With the compnay he has the insurance with we can have income coming in while I'm out on maturnity. He joined AFLAC. So I mean we aren't that bad off. He don't make a lot of money. He makes minimum wage but we get our bills paid and we're comfortable.
Quoting Miss. Tiff:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:</b>" First before I vent. Sorry if I ... [snip!] ... we try i'm not stressing any more i'm trying to ok" with the possibility of not having another. My mind/heart are just coping."
Quoting Katie & Clay's Mommy!:" One doc suggested I had it because I had a 5.6cm cyst on my right ovary that needed to be removed. But ... [snip!] ... heavy but I was the same weight as last year when I got pregnant. I may finally decide to see if losing 5-10 lbs might help."
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" That what I did. I didnt have many cysts, but my hormone levels are a bit out of wack. As soon as I ... [snip!] ... Lay with your legs up for 5 minutes. ^^Just some stuff I follow from reading up things. Your time will come, hun. ((hugs))"