Quoting Shelby Chappell:" I'm sorry people are driving you nuts about how you are raising your kid. My family is doing the same ... [snip!] ... own personal hell lol it's weird. Just hang in there and do what you need to do. You are your childs mother, your family isn't"
Thanks for the advice.. I just get so damned frustrated with people. I can handle my crying baby, I can't handle people telling me what to do about him crying. I can't really tell my grandpa no.. He's one of THOSE grandpas.. "I did this with you, my parents did it with me, your mom did this with your siblings, and none of us are dead so you're going to do it, or I am going to do it for you." All I can really do is ignore him and hope his threat is empty. I love my family but sometimes they are so overbearing.