Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" ... [snip!] ... provide adequate preventive health care is a real, valid reason to consider letting a more capable family to raise her child."
Why would I need anything else to add to this thread? What type of response is that? I asked a question, someone responded, I responded back... it's called a conversation.
I disagree with you, obviously, since I have already said my opinion. I don't think you should try and scare a young mother away from keeping her child because YOU think wellness appointments are necessary when they are not, it's not the end of the world to not take your kid to the doctor all the time. Why try to convince her of such a thing, it's ridiculous. Once a year, or when the kids are sick I'm sure is great.
Once again, OP: I hope you figure out what's best for your baby and yourself.