re: desperate

Sounds like a scam to get free money!

If you can't afford your kid give it up for adoption.

Have you been seeing a doctor? Any problems? Why not try a homebirth?

the father is here with me. he's not worried. doesnt want to talk about our problems. he said if i cry some more he'll just leave me. he dont want to be dragged by my emotions. but i told him i cannot not worry. im about to give birth anytime now. its our baby's life we're talking about. so i cant stop crying. mostly i just lock myself in so he wont see my crying. or i cry when he's asleep. so that'll make it every night. im so pathetic. sorry. should really stop sharing stuff like this. its so desperate.

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" you know what gir, its ok. im not expecting any help. i mean, who in their right mind would give money ... [snip!] ... for posting this. i just thought i can share this here. so i'll just write in my diary or something. im really sorry you guys."</blockquote>


That just sounds even better   I'm getting guilt tripped.. It costs a few hundred American to give birth at a decent hospital, or for even less you can get a house call midwife. Sell the phone, computer, whatever you are using to be on here and that would help your financial situation a bit.

sorry for the confusion. im not asking for any money. dont give money to strangers. i mean i totally agree things like these sounds like a scam. so just dont. but any advice or at least concern would highly be appreciated. just knowing there are people out there who would at least take some time to read and give some advice.

my baby's been kicking really hard so i guess he's ok. he's the love of my life and i want to give everything i can for him.

im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go
back to writing in my diary. at least i know if i write these things no one will call me a scammer.
im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more.

Breastfeed your baby, use cloth diapers, dh is from the Philippines as well.

get a midwife to help deliver your baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" Have you been seeing a doctor? Any problems? Why not try a homebirth?"</blockquote>



Prenatal care over there is really really expensive. & they don't have Medicaid..or government insurance like we do here.

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go back to writing in ... [snip!] ... will call me a scammer. im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more."</blockquote>



You can private message me if you need to talk.

Food banks, grow a garden, trade a good or service for food, homebirth, breast-feed, go to churches, redcross, look online for donations, freecycle.org

Quoting nxane:" i dont want to give my baby to anyone. i love him so much. that's not an option for me. there's no insurance ... [snip!] ... what guys, its ok. we'll i dont know.. we'll probably get through this or something. im just so sad right now. its killing me."

So you'd rather keep your child and risk him being malnourised?
Come the smurf on. If you have no money for food, clothes, or a roof over your head you don't have children. It's not fair that that kid has to grow up underfed and miserable because you're selfish.

<blockquote><b>Quoting i made a vagina.:</b>" Breastfeed your baby, use cloth diapers, dh is from the Philippines as well. get a midwife to help deliver your baby."</blockquote>




I'm really glad someone who knows the system came to help.

There was also another girl from the philippines, with a different username asking for help a couple of months ago. I think this is a scam....in her other topic she says she has 2 months to go and she posted that 9 days ago and now she´s 37 weeks?

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go back to writing in ... [snip!] ... will call me a scammer. im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more."</blockquote>



Don't smurfing target me  
I'm not the only one with suspicions and I think it's for good reason

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" So you'd rather keep your child and risk him being malnourised? Come the smurf on. If you have no money ... [snip!] ... your head you don't have children. It's not fair that that kid has to grow up underfed and miserable because you're selfish."</blockquote>


Even adoption places over there are beyond over crowded & kids aren't guaranteed food there either. the country is VERY VERY poor.