Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:" I don't think it matters if you're contacting him as well. With his criminal record I don't think the judge will look down on you for not letting him see the kids."
From my understanding, if cops find out he's been contacting me the only one who gets in trouble is him, but you could very well be right.
I have the papers i just need to fill them out. the fines and fee's that go along with this is what really worries me. I don't have the extra money & since him and his brother are frequent jail birds they know good lawyers.