re: I am totally mind smu*rfed right now... *BG secrets*

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" sounds like an excuse. It's making me cringe.  "</blockquote>




Definitely...

Quoting £egendary £ex:" This is smurfing disgusting & idk how you can even blame alcohol for that... Really?  "

I was thinking the same thing.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" sounds like an excuse. It's making me cringe.  "</blockquote>




Exactly this. Disgusting.  

Quoting £egendary £ex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" sounds like an excuse. It's making me cringe.  "</blockquote> Definitely..."

exactly. because, even when drunk, how do you mistake a baby for a woman??? like, weird.

OP I hope you are making arrangements to get you and your baby out... tonight. I couldn't sleep in the same house as him.

He only does this when he is wasted which is why I say it's alcohol induced. By no means does that give him the right to do what he did. I am sick. I told him I hated him and to leave before I killed him. I meant it... Honestly, if I thought he did this intentionally, I would have murdered him, no lie. I have been sexually abused so I wouldn't stand for that smurf. I don't know if I even want him back, with counseling. How do I ever forgive that?! And DD had all of her clothes on. He was like, grabbing at her belly and kissing her cheek... To type that out makes me want to go buy a gun... I am so smurfed right now.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" OP I hope you are making arrangements to get you and your baby out... tonight. I couldn't sleep in the same house as him."

I have not been home all day. I told him to leave before I got back tonight.

Quoting BG Secrets:" I have not been home all day. I told him to leave before I got back tonight."

Ok good I am glad ya'll are safe!

Don't do anything stupid though..

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Ok good I am glad ya'll are safe! Don't do anything stupid though.."

The only thing stopping me is partial denial and the safety of my daughter. I need to be here for her.

TBH, for me, forgiveness is out of the question. Even if you want to accept alcohol as a reason and not an excuse. I would never forgive any one for that. My child and i would be gone and I would report to the police.

Quoting MommaNoodle:" exactly. because, even when drunk, how do you mistake a baby for a woman??? like, weird. "

 

Quoting BG Secrets:" The only thing stopping me is partial denial and the safety of my daughter. I need to be here for her."

 
Yes. You're her greatest influence.
I grew up without a mother, it sucks. She needs you!

Quoting BG Secrets:" I have not been home all day. I told him to leave before I got back tonight."

i, personally, wouldn't go back tonight. i would wait until tomorrow during the day to go back. that way, if he is still there, you don't feel like you need to stay because it is late or something. and it will give him extra time to pack his smurf. i'd have the locks changed tomorrow too, so he can't try and come home drunk again.

Thanks ladies. I have a long road ahead of me...

That is disgusting. Oh my. Tell him he needs to go to a rehab center and fix his alcohol problem if he ever wants to see you or your LO again.

Don't let him tell you he will stop drinking on his own.

If he doesn't accept help then don't go back to him.