re: How are you supposed to PROVE rape in court??

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Be sure to speak on the tape in the conversation as well. As far as I know, the only way tapes are admissible ... [snip!] ... but I think that you will likely need to just have a conversation with one, it's not fun, but it could be very helpful.) "

yes I will probably end up doing it anyways. Some of them can be nice, I've been friends with some...but most are errgh.
I'm going to have to get a tape recorder. Those things are fun to mess around with anyway...lol.
I'll do that. Thank you.