My boyfriend cheated while I was pregnant

Okay I am going to try to make a very long story short. I was 7 months pregnant . One day my boyfriend had a migraine and pretty much slept the day away. His phone was in the living room and he received a text so i glanced at it. and it was from Emily (which i knew he talked to her but i thought it was pure friendly) well I started going through his texts and he was telling her he loves her and apparently going to see her after work and she said her pillow smelled like him? When i confronted him about it he said that he only kissed her ( which he doesnt consider cheating WTF) and that he went to her house to help mover her bed and thats why she said that. of course i believed him and decided to stay for the sake of our daughter. 5 months later, I check our phone records weekly i check his email. and i also came across his criagslist accounts where he posted wanting to have sex with other girls he hasnt done that 7 months, but I am always still worried that its going to happen again not only that. did he really only kiss her/? are there others will I ever know?
on top of that I am a SAHM and if i wanted to leave I would have no way to support me and my daughter I know thats a horrible excuse to stay but im just confused??

I am so sorry you are going through this. I do believe that he might change but from the sounds of things it sounds like her keeping secrets i dont understand how her pillow would smell like him if he only moved her bed...

Get out of there. Your daughter deserves a better father figure, or at least a strong, independent mum who doesn't let smurf like that fly.

Thats what I thought, its not like he wears heavy cologn and it just lingers around

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I am so sorry you are going through this, pm me if you want.

I would leave. You don't deserve that and either does your child. Sounds like he is just getting away with it all. You staying sends the message that it is ok.
If you can find a place to stay until you get on your feet that would be great. There are a lot of resources for single mothers.

My ex cheated on me when I was 5 months. He doesn't consider it cheating since he waited until AFTER he dumped her to do anything physical but... he pursued an emotional attachment with someone knowing her had a pregnant g/f at home and didn't nip it in the bud with her. It's cheating.

I wouldn't give him any more chances. Cheating and hitting are my two deal breakers.

I used to say that too, I guess I need to put my big girl panrs on and do something about it. I wanted to make it work but i just dont think I can be with someone that I constantly have to ckeck on, its not I wanted for my life and I deserve better. Now that ive said that Im curous to see how long i stick it for...
 

genuinely curious, but how is someone on a removed account still posting?

hope things get better for you, op

I dont think My account is removed and if it I dont know why..

thanks

it is weird that it says account removed....
 

I hope people are still going to see my post and reply to it!

it still showed up in the side bar. I read everything when i'm bored, even if i don't reply to it. i was just confused when i noticed the account removed sign and had to comment lol

It's a glitch. It's happening to new accounts.

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BG has a glitch or something its been doing that to alot of peiples accounts but their accounts arnt actually removed.