Try again?

Last month my husbands friend threw my laptop and busted it, so I told him he had to leave our house and that he needed to get me a laptop and he went off and punched me in the face so out of reaction I punched him back and he picked me up and threw me up against a wall.. My husband then hit him and threw him out of our house needless to say, so I went on with my day as if nothing happened. The next morning I woke up crying in pain so my husband took me to the hospital and they told me that I was 6 weeks pregnant and when I had hit the wall the impact ripped my uterus. They told me they could go in and repair the tare but the baby still may not make it. They told me it only had a 30 percent chance with the tare getting fixed or a 15 percent chance with out it. So I went ahead and let them do it.. After about a week I started bleeding profusely and I went back to the doctor and they told me that I had lost the baby..

My husband and I were devastated, we are now talking about trying again.. Do you think it is to soon? Should we try or wait.

As long as the dr oks it (not sure about healing from a tare) and you guys think your ready. Btw what happened with his friend, did you guys press charges

The doc says it's fine, we just didn't know if it would seem selfish.
Yes we pressed charges on him he is facing murder on an unborn.

I would try again. But i would also press charges!

Oh my god, I'm so sorry   What happened to the bastard? I hope he'll be in jail for some time.

How long did your doctor suggest waiting? My doc suggested waiting at least one to three cycles after each of my losses, but the circumstances were different. Do you feel physically and emotionally ready to try again? I wish you the best, mama. Again, I'm sorry.

The doc said I can try whenever I am ready.. We both are pretty sure we are ready to try again and my oldest is ready for me to have him a new baby he says as long as its a boy lol..

The guy is in jail. We have court the last week in January they are putting his charges as murder of an unborn, so he will probably be in prison for a while.

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I don't think it's selfish at all to try again. If your doc says it's okay, and you're ready, then go for it.