am i wrong?

Well lately me and my DDs fathers family have been getting along well i am at least with his grandparents and his sister. They asked if they could be involved with DD and i said as long as theres no drama and bullsmurf and they come to my house to see her. Their house is just not appropriate for a baby. They have agreed. Well i plan on telling my DDs father that his mother is not allowed to to be at the hospital when our daughter is born shes not allowed to be involved with her period. She wont meet her or anything. Me and his mother have never gotten along, she's threatened me and harassed me since i became pregnant i had her arrested for it. Shes also a drug addict who had nothing to do with my DDs father his whole life. I do not want her around my child at all... is that wrong?

If you feel that she is harmful to your child then I don't think it's wrong, if you are keeping her away just just because you don't like her then I think it would be selfish.

Imo, no, its not wrong. If she wants to choose drugs and violence over seeing her grandchild, thats her choice.

Not wrong at all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma +2 Girls:</b>" Imo, no, its not wrong. If she wants to choose drugs and violence over seeing her grandchild, thats her choice."</blockquote>


Exactly thats how i feel. I dont want drugs around my baby... and shes not smart enough to not do it in front of her i feel. I just dread telling My DDs fathers family they always seem to try to justify her actions , my ex doesnt though he would probably agree with me about this subject i just havent talked to him about it yet, im sure it wont be a surprise though.

nope not at all because I wouldn't have my daughter around anyone like that either . I wouldn't even be around anyone like that so I definitely wouldn't bring my daughter to that type of environment . now if yall just didn't get along and she didn't do all those things you listed then it would be wrong but she didn't seem like a safe person to be around so I think your absolutely right .

I don't think it's wrong. My MIL hasn't seen my kids in almost two years and we didn't even tell her about DD

Is your LOs father on board with your decision? I don't think you are wrong, but if it isn't agreed on with your SO then it could cause problems in your relationship.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Rice:</b>" Is your LOs father on board with your decision? I don't think you are wrong, but if it isn't agreed on with your SO then it could cause problems in your relationship."</blockquote>




I havent talked to him about it but i dont think he would have a problem he doesnt have much to do with her and hes quite pissed off at her right now.