Quoting Third Time Mommy:" This is going to be kind of long, because I need to give some back story.. My MIL is an alcoholic, and ... [snip!] ... some point need to tell her she isn't welcome to the hospital. I don't know how I should go about this. *END* Any thoughts?"
i would call her and tell her that you think in her current volatile and emotionally unstable state she is not who you want around your kids.... and certainly not in the hospital. thennn u tell the hospital you absolutely do not want her allowed in (because she will still try and come... )