So Cosmo says you're fat?

Well I ain't down with that.

I wouldn't say anything. But I would cut off contact 100% no matter what.

Quoting Third Time Mommy:" This is going to be kind of long, because I need to give some back story.. My MIL is an alcoholic, and ... [snip!] ... some point need to tell her she isn't welcome to the hospital. I don't know how I should go about this. *END* Any thoughts?"

i would call her and tell her that you think in her current volatile and emotionally unstable state she is not who you want around your kids.... and certainly not in the hospital. thennn u tell the hospital you absolutely do not want her allowed in (because she will still try and come... )

Wow, sorry you are dealing with all this. I would just continue to distance myself from her as much as possible. You can always just notify the hospital that you do not want her there and they'll make it happen.  

Hugs.

I wouldn't say nothing as it would drag it out more. Id just leave it be and not have contact with her. That is highly dangerous

She is not a rational person, talking to her and telling her why you're cutting her put of your lives will just be an argument. As tempting as it is to give her a piece of your mind, I would just find a girlfriend or someone to bitch to about it and keep MIL put of yours and your children's lives until she has some significant time sober from drugs and alcohol

i wouldn't mention anything to her. just cut off all contact with her. i would inform the hospital that she is not welcome in the room or around your child, just in case she tries to show up anyways.

I would call her and tell her that becaUs of her behavior she is not welcome at the hospital when the baby arrives and she may not see the kids again. Then hang up and ignore her. Tell her off is just as bad as her behavior, just let her know that you won't tolerate her bs and you're moving on. If she really wants to be involved with your kids she will maken changes on her own, and you can tell her that too.

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<blockquote><b>Quoting Third Time Mommy:</b>" I agree that telling the hospital she isn't welcome is the best thing to do, because even if I do tell ... [snip!] ... he wants to tell other people in his family not to tell her anything about the baby either, and not to bring her up there."</blockquote>


I hope things get better. Needless to say, you don't need the extra stress while pregnant, honey.  

Quoting Allure:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Third Time Mommy:</b>" I agree that telling the hospital she ... [snip!] ... I hope things get better. Needless to say, you don't need the extra stress while pregnant, honey.  "

Thank you, and you're right, because stress is all it is.