Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" I am on cash assistance right now and me and BD are in the process of reconciling. He has not been served papers can the order be cancelled? I plan cancelling the cash assistance as well."I believe if you report that you are living together again that it can be. Check with your local welfare office.
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" I wouldn't cancel anything unless you get married. But that's just me."
Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" If i cancel the cash assistance wouldnt the order get cancelled?"Cash assistance has nothing to do with child support.
Quoting Snickles:" They are two separate orders but in order to receive assistance they make you take the BD for child support. ... [snip!] ... already and something happens you wont have to go through the whole set up process then, when you may need the child support. "
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snickles:</b>" They are two separate orders but in order to ... [snip!] ... OP if it doesn't work out, you are back at step one. If it does, the money is still in your pocket anyway to take care of LO."
Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" Well it has been almost a year and there still has been no court order yet and i just think it would ... [snip!] ... child support when we are living together and the money is going to the same place. I guess i will have to wait till monday. "
Quoting Snickles:" yes and no, think of it as a safety net for your LO, what if you and BD split up again, how long will ... [snip!] ... will you need the child support right away? or would you be able to take care of LO's needs without his help financially? "
Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" Yeah. Makes sense. Thanks "