Do you have a condom? Not safe for kids!

I was thinking about this...

Say you are hanging out with someone who you have a HUGE crush on or whatever. Not a SO or DH.


Things start getting hot and heavy, you are both ready and willing to go at it and get nasty. You ask if he has a condom. He says no.

Do you think you'd do it in the spur of the moment? Or would you just say " Oh to bad. Better luck next time."

Try to put yourself in THAT mind set. How responsible are you when you are ready and rearing to go.

ETA: You are single.

NEVERMIND WHAT I HAD FIRST SAID LOLLLLL



.. Oh, I misunderstood. If I knew the person and was on b/c i'd do it  

Quoting Syndal:" Like, cheating? Like if I was around someone I liked and they kept putting the moves on and I couldn't resist? Hmmm, I think I'd say no. I'd think it was a sign I was being reaaaaally naughty."

Noo. Like if you were single.  

Been there done that- I now have a 5 yr old son lol- that should answer the question

Been there....in that exact situation. we did it without, and just did the pull and pray. There was NO WAY in the world I was gonna detour that train.

Considering if I was single and the only effective birth control I have EVER had was rhythm method. I would think ok am I fertile and if not I would go for it. If I was in a fertile state I would say ok we have got to get some type of protection. but that's just me lol  

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" I was thinking about this... Say you are hanging out with someone who you have a HUGE crush on or whatever. ... [snip!] ... Try to put yourself in THAT mind set. How responsible are you when you are ready and rearing to go. ETA: You are single."

I've been there. sucks... but reality. No.. I don't carry a condom. I'm not having sex in cars. If I"m having sex at his place.. yes, I expect him to have a condom. No condom... we can fool around... and look foward to next time.

do I have condoms at MY house.. yes.

Yeah, I'd probably go the irresponsible route.   pull and pray ftw

Quoting Big'n:" Yeah, I'd probably go the irresponsible route.   pull and pray ftw"

Hey, been working for me for 4 years now.  

Quoting Mum to a Monster:" Been there....in that exact situation. we did it without, and just did the pull and pray. There was NO WAY in the world I was gonna detour that train."

I've had a tubal... VERY slim chance of pregnancy. that's not my reason for using a condom.

No way in hell I'm exposing myself to something in a non-monogomous relationship.

hell.. I was dating a DOCTOR...and still wouldn't do anything without a condom.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Hey, been working for me for 4 years now.  "</blockquote>




It worked for me...til we decided to skip the pulling and just pray  
Now I have a 7 year old.

Been there. The first time my husband and I had sex. Lol.
luckily, no one was conceived in that moment... but we do have an almost three year old that was very much unplanned.

Quoting Mum to a Monster:" Been there....in that exact situation. we did it without, and just did the pull and pray. There was NO WAY in the world I was gonna detour that train."

 . This made me giggle.

Quoting thechelseamonster:" Been there. The first time my husband and I had sex. Lol. luckily, no one was conceived in that moment... but we do have an almost three year old that was very much unplanned."

I did this with my ex husband. We didn't have a condom, I was almost black out drunk and said SmUrf IT. I only got off depo 4 months ago, should still work right?  

Quoting snglemama:" I've had a tubal... VERY slim chance of pregnancy. that's not my reason for using a condom. No way ... [snip!] ... something in a non-monogomous relationship. hell.. I was dating a DOCTOR...and still wouldn't do anything without a condom."

To me. The last thing on my horny mind is STDs. I know it should be, but that's kind of a mood kill. And on my logical mind it would be.