Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea.J:</b>" That's what I'm trying to do. I have 2 sisters ... [snip!] ... up for failure in my opinion. No labor ever goes exaclry as expected and women should keep their minds open going into it."
This is my first and even I figured that out just by my sisters, and reading on BG and all these scalpel happy ob's! What is that?! lol
I know they're there for when it get ridiculous I have really bad anxiety I can handle pain, and try and convince myself it's not the pain that tells you something is wrong. <-- the panicky kind of pain.
I also know that there's no way a doctor or society in general would use these drugs if they were dangerous to the fetus. An opiate is an opiate and moms with CS, who take painkillers and breatfeed have no harm to their babies...
I'm so worried I'm going to make a choice right off the bat that will harm my little girl. I'm going in with the mindset of going as long as I can without one. Or anything. This will be SO's first vaginal delivery his first son's mother had a CS. I'm more scared for him and his reactions than my own LOL!