re: If you love someone let them free

Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" No its cyclosporin ... its an immunosuppresant (sp?)"</blockquote> What about enbrel and such meds?"

I have to have something like 45% coverage of my skin for anything beyond what I've been offered. I currently only have something like 28% (or it was at my last appointment anyway). I will ask on Friday though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" I have to have something like 45% coverage of my skin for anything beyond what I've been offered. I ... [snip!] ... been offered. I currently only have something like 28% (or it was at my last appointment anyway). I will ask on Friday though."</blockquote>




Hmm. Odd requirement. I don't believe that is how it is prescribed here.... But I'm not a doc.

Quoting The Master:" Say your partner really really wanted a big family, and for recently diagnosed health reasons you're ... [snip!] ... and still love you, you know that they're miserable and deserve better. Would you let them go or be selfish and hold on?"

depends on what they wanted. True love... deals with hurdles life throws at us... through better or worse. but.. I also don't believe in being miserable. If he loved me enough to overcome that loss.. I'd hold on. I'd have to believe if he wants to be with me.. the loss of ME would hurt more than the loss of the life he expected.

but.. if the loss of the life he wished to have was more important than I was... then I'd let him go

I'd let them go, if they wanted too.. But if he truly loved me, I don't think he'd do it.

There's always adoption anyway.
Problem really is the intimacy.. But that can be worked out..

I just don't know it. It'd cause me so much pain too, because I'd have absolutely no fault in the situation.. but I don't know.

Quoting The Master:" and what about the intimacy? How long would you expect them to go without sex before cracks would start to appear?"

There are so many ways to be intimate without sex though. It could be an exciting new start to an alternative sex life. By alternative I don't mean freaky weird stuff just other ways of showing passion and love.
Examples are....
Sharing a bath or shower
Massage
Date nights
Foreplay or using sex toys (no penetration if it is a problem though)