re: Mother In Law

Quoting Scerria Desiree Ford:“ I don't know why the delivery talk has came up, me and my husband just talk about names but thats it. ... [snip!] ... of your advice, I'm def going to take a lot of it into inconsideration. This site has been amazing for this kind of stuff.”

Can I just warn you that not calling her could cause more problems because she will not blame him for it no matter what excuse you use she is going to blame you.

Im telling my husband he needs to tell his mother that while I'm in labor that she needs to stay home and we'll call her when it's time for her to come up. I don't even want my mom at the hospital during labor, I think that should be a special moment between me, my husband and baby.

Quoting Scerria Desiree Ford:“ Im telling my husband he needs to tell his mother that while I'm in labor that she needs to stay home ... [snip!] ... I don't even want my mom at the hospital during labor, I think that should be a special moment between me, my husband and baby.”

I wouldn't tell her anything!! Just call her afterwards and say Baby is here. If she knows your in labor she will show up.

I would not let her see the baby at all. I know it sounds horribal, but if I thought my husband's mother was in love with him and all, I would not be in her life at all. Sounds like she has a problem and she is a bitch. I would deff not let my child around a woman like that. EWWW, I hope everything works out for you.

Situations like yours make me thank my lucky stars that I have wonderful inlaws!

I can't even believe a person can be that rude to their son's wife. That is horrible! You have a good heart though, I would have given up long ago. She's inconsiderate and rude. It's a good thing you have a tough enough skin to take it! But I definetely would stop updating her, or trying to see if she wants to do things, and I MOST definetely wouldn't let her in the room until you are ready to let the witch hold your child.

Quoting Scerria Desiree Ford:“ Well, I have a mother in law, as do most married women.. she is simply unbearable. I'm not sure what ... [snip!] ... take it anymore. With my hormones as crazy as they are, I'm going to explode soon. What should I do? ANY advice will help.”

I was having a problem just like that.But my boyfriend made it all about her when i my son.She is a bitch and always will be.She seems to think she is my son's mom so i finally had enough and told her she is not allowed to see him anymore.So she hasnt seen him since he was 2 months old.But she is trying to get back at me my having my boyfriend do everything she wants so he cant come over here and spend time with me and my son.Im sorry to say but its only going to get worse.I tryed yelling at her and everything nothing ever works.Im sorry this is happening to you.I would tell her that you are holding your son first and tell her the rules and if she doesnt agree tell her she isnt seeing your baby.

O wow I'm so sorry your mother in law is like that. I wouldnt call her and ask your hubby not to until your baby is born that way you won't have to deal with the stress of her there. She sounds like she has some major problems and try not to stress out much about her. It sounds kind of like she is jealous cause she is losing her baby or something along those lines. I have seen it happen with my bff fiance his mom was like that too when she was pregnant and she just set rules. Of course the mother didnt like them but she respected her sons and her wishes to back off.

Oh yes, I feel like im in the same predicament at times. I mean im not married or anything cause im a young mommy and all. But my boyfriends mom is so old school and how many times she says "ohh look at my baby" meaning my son and one time my son was looking at me cause he loves to stare at me and she was like ohh whos that? aunty?... wtf! its just irritating how she can think she's taking over. But you need to keep reminding yourself that YOU ARE THE PARENT...she's only the grandmother so dont let her take advantage and try to take over! you have every right because that's your baby!!! it's hard cuz for me i dont like to hurt other people's feelings but at the same time i have to think of whats best for me and my son. but keep your head up high hunn! stay strong and dont feel like ur alone! its hard...but you'll make it through! =]

omg horrible gosh i feel bad 4 u u should rent the movie monster in law n watch it with her at her house lmao or just talk to her n tell her her son chose u n y she dont like u n if dat dont work take her son far far away im trying dat mysef lol

Quoting My heart is still waiting:“ I can't even believe a person can be that rude to their son's wife. That is horrible! You have a good ... [snip!] ... wants to do things, and I MOST definetely wouldn't let her in the room until you are ready to let the witch hold your child.”

omg some girl i no was telling me dat her in law n boyfriend made her clean up after everyone dats messed up plus she had to work n her boy did not n she was pregnant i told her its cuz u want to lol ust wanted to share

I have no idea how to read that.

im sorry its just me typing super fast  

Quoting Scerria Desiree Ford:“ Well, I have a mother in law, as do most married women.. she is simply unbearable. I'm not sure what ... [snip!] ... take it anymore. With my hormones as crazy as they are, I'm going to explode soon. What should I do? ANY advice will help.”

Sounds like she's a bitch. Channel your inner Mother Theresa and try not to tear her apart. You're doing the right thing so continue to be kind. Maybe you should sit her down and say, "Look, I'm here. I'm married to your son. I'm having your grandbaby. I know you dislike me although I don't know why.I will continue to treat you with kindness even though you give me nothing but disdain. If yu decide to change, let me know. Until then,I'll continue to be patient even if you are acting like a nightmare." ~~ Let her know that you don't like her behavior, but that you will tolerate her for your husband's sake.

Good luck.