I'm surrounded by fertile people.

Out of my 92 facebook friends, 17 people are expecting and 12 had kids within the last month or two, and here I am, trying for over a year. I don't know how many all of these people were trying, but I know several of them were "oopsies" so it just freaking sucks. Just a little vent, but dang it. I can't wait until I can start Clomid the end of next month.


Happy holiday's to you all.

I'm sorry, mama. I know how you feel. When we were trying and going through our losses, everyone else was announcing that they were expecting. It was very hard. I had to hide and delete a lot of people. I just couldn't take it. I hope things start looking up for you.  

When me and my SO announced our "planned" baby suddenly ALOT of friends announced there pregnancies to. It kind of makes me wish we had waited abit longer so I could be pregnant alone, so try think of it like that. I hope you get your bun in the oven soon enough though  

i felt the same way. then when i lost my second baby i stopped trying and we went on vacation to disney worly and bam 2 weeks after we got back i was pregnant! just go to disney world its a magical place lol. good luck and baby dust.

It took me 10 years before I finally got my first successful pregnancy and I'd get upset at others who were pregnant with seemingly little effort.

Quoting BunnyGirl19:" It took me 10 years before I finally got my first successful pregnancy and I'd get upset at others who were pregnant with seemingly little effort."

 

Did they find a reason for your losses?

That just stinks. Life is really unfair sometimes and I hope you get a BFP soon. I haven't struggled with this exact difficulty but I do know what if feels like when it seems like everyone is getting what you want effortlessly.

I know how you feel OP. It has taken me 11 months and a loss to get pregnant again. I felt like everyone around me was only trying for a month or two before they got knocked up, most of them even two weeks!! Like wtf! It is so hard to deal with and I'm sorry. I am praying this is my rainbow baby and I am praying you get a sticky bean soon too! Good Luck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>"   Did they find a reason for your losses?"</blockquote>




Yes, Antiphospholipid Syndrome. It's an autoimmune blood clotting disorder.

Quoting BunnyGirl19:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>"   Did they find a reason for your losses?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... a reason for your losses?"</blockquote> Yes, Antiphospholipid Syndrome. It's an autoimmune blood clotting disorder."

I've heard of it. I have abnormal clotting factors as well. I have to take Lovenox. I hope everything goes well with your current pregnancy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" I've heard of it. I have abnormal clotting factors as well. I have to take Lovenox. I hope everything goes well with your current pregnancy."</blockquote>




Same here. Just started my shots again today. And thanks! I hope your pregnancy goes well too.  

Yeah. I just got on FB and yet again, someone else announcing pregnancy. I get so upset I don't even want to get on it anymore  

Thanks gals, it just sucks, and I'm being whiny about it. Three of my really good friends, who I have been friends with for years are pregnant. They are always talking about it, one always wants me to feel the baby kick, grabbing my hand to feel her belly. I have gotten to where I can't hang out with them and I cry when chatting on facebook with them. I am happy for them and wish them the best of luck, but it's so hard. I am jealous as absolute hell, only one had been trying and only for six months. No charting, just not using condoms. We've been unprotected for two years, and before that we only used condoms about half the time. Just praying Clomid is our answer.

My heart is with you dear. It definitely sucks. I keep putting off going to the doctor (I could have gone 5 months ago to find out why we haven't been able to conceive) because I'm afraid of what he'll tell me  

Hopefully your time is soon!

Quoting *Berrrr:" My heart is with you dear. It definitely sucks. I keep putting off going to the doctor (I could have ... [snip!] ... ago to find out why we haven't been able to conceive) because I'm afraid of what he'll tell me   Hopefully your time is soon!"

I didn't want to go either, and I'm still afraid this won't work.