Quoting pretty 'n' pink:" thanks ladies for all your replies. I hope he is just in shock and he comes around but if he doesn't ... [snip!] ... but I also want to choose him. And I'm scared to be alone and that no one else will love me if I have 2 kids by 2 men. Ugh fml"
That's bullsmurf. Any man that is worthy of being with you and being around your kids won't care that your children have 2 different fathers. I used to think the same thing. I got pregnant at 16, that went to smurf, and I got pregnant again at 18 (also went to smurf). But I met a man while I was pregnant with m second son who was older than me, was in the army, and had no kids. I never would have thought he would want me. But he did. I had my son while we were dating and I married him a few months later. That child is now 5 and has NO idea my husband is not his father. My husband has raised him and his biological father walked away so my husband could be his dad. Now I have another son with my husband and we are expecting our second baby (my 4th). The only one of my children that doesn't look like my husband is my oldest. When my 5 year old was a toddler we went to my husbands deployment ceremony and all the men in my husbands unit told him how much our son looked like him. Nobody knew, and to this day, most people don't. You will find a man just as great, who steps up and loves your kids if your child's father won't. Men (especially an asshat like that) is easily replaced. Your baby can't be. If you choose abortion, choose it because it is what YOU feel is best. Don't choose it because it is what he wants. If he loved you he would never make you choose between the life of your child, or his love.