re: What would you do?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" Oh my god, marks around her neck??? Did the other kid choke her or something? That's horrible!"</blockquote>




Yes, and I was over it that day. She was only 2 at the time and I refused to have her in that situation. Shortly after I pulled my kids three other parents in my neighborhood pulled theirs as well.

Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:" Maybe see if the daycare knows if the chld responds better to picture commands then vocal commands? again, ... [snip!] ... if the daycare was doing their job, then they should be able to curb the aggression and find him a way to redirect his aggression."

this exactly.

Quoting Sugarhiccup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" Oh my god, marks around her neck??? Did the other ... [snip!] ... to have her in that situation. Shortly after I pulled my kids three other parents in my neighborhood pulled theirs as well."

Oh my god, that's awful!

Quoting *Drooling*:" I would suggest to the owner to tell that little boy's parents to get him in a special needs program,not ... [snip!] ... damn job and put an end to the behavior other wise you will turn them in. That is abuse even if is coming from another child."

I agree with you. I think he is the only SN child in the center. Perhaps the people at the daycare don't know really how to handle a SN child. I have no idea.

This might sound mean, but I kind of hope the kid gets kicked out of the center before I end up having to pull my kids. It's not fair to them to have to leave a place and people they love because of one kid.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sugarhiccup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" Oh my god, marks around her neck??? Did the other ... [snip!] ... to have her in that situation. Shortly after I pulled my kids three other parents in my neighborhood pulled theirs as well."</blockquote>




That is outrageous... good that you pulled your child from there. That kind of mess from kid or not is uncalled for. Idc what is wrong with the child. They may not know better, but they can be taught. Seriously.

Quoting Minion:" I agree with you. I think he is the only SN child in the center. Perhaps the people at the daycare ... [snip!] ... I end up having to pull my kids. It's not fair to them to have to leave a place and people they love because of one kid.  "

It's not fair to the little boy to be in that situation where he isn't getting help. His parents need to get his behavior under control at a young age before it get's out of hand when his is older. They may not know how to handle it or what they need to do. I'd talk with the owner bc that's a liability for them knowingly having a child that can't be controlled/ If he were to seriously hurt another child they'd he be in huge trouble.
But it sounds like they also don't know how to handle a child with SN if they are allowing him to do this everyday. I know if I was running a day care and had a child doing this after like 3 times of it happening I would speak to the parents. Give them a warning and after the next time i'd make them take their child else where.

Quoting *Drooling*:" It's not fair to the little boy to be in that situation where he isn't getting help. His parents need ... [snip!] ... happening I would speak to the parents. Give them a warning and after the next time i'd make them take their child else where."

You have a good point.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Drooling*:</b>" It's not fair to the little boy to be in that situation where he isn't getting help. His parents need ... [snip!] ... happening I would speak to the parents. Give them a warning and after the next time i'd make them take their child else where."</blockquote>




I agree.