Where do I go from here?

I thought I'd put this in 'preparing for baby' because I have to get myself into a good place, emotionally, before the baby comes (if not before).
My boyfriend and I broke up. We weren't together that long, I accidentally got pregnant pretty early into the relationship (don't jump on my about birth control - I was on the pill, didn't know it wouldn't work when I was on antibiotics because I was never told, so naturally I thought we were protected when the condom broke) but I was starting to really love him. Unfortunately, he resorted to name calling, etc.
We'd been having problems for the past couple weeks, and today I caught him and a 16 year old flirting on fb (he's 22 - gross). I asked him to please delete her after he said it was nothing and he told me I was being an immature, controlling bitch.
I'm just so tired and depressed and I do not know where to go from here.

Where r u at? You can come visit me. Haha. That'll get you away From all the stress  

me* - oops

Quoting lolajessup:" Where r u at? You can come visit me. Haha. That'll get you away From all the stress  "

Aww, all the way down near K-zoo, unfortunately  

<blockquote><b>Quoting veggiehugger:</b>" Aww, all the way down near K-zoo, unfortunately   "</blockquote>


Darn   tell BD to stop being such a douche. He's gonna be a father. What does he need to be talking to jail bait for?!?! Maybe once he sees his LO he'll snap into shape? Some men it takes seeing their child for it to feel real.

I got pregnant on the first date - got drunk, wasn't on b/c (which he knew) and wasn't coherent enough to tell him to back the smurf up when he took the condom off  

He started cheating on me when I was 4 months pregnant and left me for her when I was 5 months. They're living together now and apparently soooo in love   Whatevs dude. He was a disrespectful smurf, and I'm a hell of a lot happier now than I have been in the last 6 months.

I just ignore him unless it has to do with the baby, and honestly, I don't tell him much on that front either because he would like to believe the baby isn't his (but he still somehow believes he has the right to insist on bringing his new girlfriend to appointments and he has final say in all parenting decisions and he's going to get full custody of our daughter - yeaahhh ok dude)

I'm working on building a relationship with his sister though, she's awesome  

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting veggiehugger:</b>" Aww, all the way down near K-zoo, unfortunately ... [snip!] ... to jail bait for?!?! Maybe once he sees his LO he'll snap into shape? Some men it takes seeing their child for it to feel real."

Yeah, we'll see. I guess it hurts because he told me that we were into this together. I don't have a job yet (but I do have a second interview next week!), but I've been the only one buying anything for the baby. He hasn't even offered to get anything, even if he was there for the purchases. He just keeps talking about all this gym equipment he wants to buy - and yet he calls me immature.
The thing that makes it worse about the 16 year old is the fact that she's my younger brother's ex-girlfriend!! So this situation is just all kinds of smurfed up. :/

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" I got pregnant on the first date - got drunk, wasn't on b/c (which he knew) and wasn't coherent enough ... [snip!] ... custody of our daughter - yeaahhh ok dude) I'm working on building a relationship with his sister though, she's awesome   "

He tries to bring his girlfriend to appointments?!?!?! And these are usually the same guys that have the balls to tell us we're crazy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting veggiehugger:</b>" Yeah, we'll see. I guess it hurts because he told me that we were into this together. I don't have a ... [snip!] ... 16 year old is the fact that she's my younger brother's ex-girlfriend!! So this situation is just all kinds of smurfed up. :/ "</blockquote>


Yeah that's rediculus   maybe you two need to sit down and have a calm civil conversation?

Quoting veggiehugger:" He tries to bring his girlfriend to appointments?!?!?! And these are usually the same guys that have the balls to tell us we're crazy. "

Oh yeah, I'm the immature, childish one   He's an idiot.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting veggiehugger:</b>" Yeah, we'll see. I guess it hurts because ... [snip!] ... up. :/ "</blockquote> Yeah that's rediculus   maybe you two need to sit down and have a calm civil conversation?"

Impossible because he'll just storm off.
We're broken up and I guess that's that.
Hope that 16 year old is worth getting sent to jail for.