Quoting Emily Dickinson:" That is the father to your children - he will always hold a place in your heart. Its normal to care about ... [snip!] ... Its normal to care about him and his feelings and his well being. I would think it was more odd for you not to care at all."
Quoting Allure:" Unfortunately, I don't have much advice but I am very sorry to hear about your divorce. Everything you're feeling right now is natural, you're only human.... Hugs."
Quoting MommaNoodle:" i've never been in the situation, but i can see how you are still concerned for him. that seems normal ... [snip!] ... the feelings of concern will start to diminish for you. sorry, you're going through this. i hope things work out for you. "
Quoting Tat'd Bitch+3:" He is the father of ur kids you will always have these feelings. Do u know how many tImes i want to hug/txt my ex cuz he is feeling down/depressed? ALOT!!"
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" No, you'll always care. My eldest's daughter's father is a heroin and meth addict. He abuses pills and ... [snip!] ... just goes on and on. It's been 4 years of this smurf but I still love and care about him deeply, and I worry he's going to OD."
Quoting Tat'd Bitch+3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:</b>" Do you?"</blockquote> No, i dont. Because he has moved on & so have i but its still hard."
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" . I'm very sorry. I just feel like I was meant to "rescue" him in a way... And now that I'm not ... [snip!] ... a book on all the smurf he's done, but everything he's done doesn't outweigh how I feel about him. No matter how hard I try. ."
Quoting MommaNoodle:" i think i kind of know what you mean. and i think that that is something you need to get over and it ... [snip!] ... will come. i assume it could be awhile since you had/have a deep emotional connection to him. but... one day it will. "