bd not following my wishes

My sons father told me he was gonna make a video of the boys and put in on youtube and i told him i didnt want him to i dont want my kids put out there like that.Maybe im being to overprotective or something but i did not want a video on youtube of my kids but he went and did it anyway. He barely sees the kids to start off with doesnt help me financially or physically at all with them and he goes and takes alot of their pictures of my facebook and puts them in the video. He didnt ask me or anything. I am beyond freakin pissed right now. Maybe im acting stupid over it but i just wish he would respect my wishes especially since im the primary caregiver of them.

That's bull. Try flagging the vid and contacting youtube stating you did not have permission for your personal photos to be used in the video, they are usually really good about snipping that crap

I don't see an issue with it as long as the kids aren't naked or doing anything inappropriate.

Do you have a custody order?
Do you have a child support order?

Quoting Unique Mama:" That's bull. Try flagging the vid and contacting youtube stating you did not have permission for your personal photos to be used in the video, they are usually really good about snipping that crap"

I just went and flagged it and said it was because of privacy issues but im gonna try and contact youtube tomorrow. It just pissed me of so much and of course he puts the only pics he has of him holding the boys and it makes him look like such a good dad

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I don't see an issue with it as long as the kids aren't naked or doing anything inappropriate. Do you have a custody order? Do you have a child support order?"

I have full custody of the kids and we are going through the whole child support. Its not the point of them being naked or not its the point that i didnt want it on there and he had no respect for me

Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" I have full custody of the kids and we are going through the whole child support. Its not the point of them being naked or not its the point that i didnt want it on there and he had no respect for me"

He is the man you chose to have 2 children with....he can take pictures and put them up if he wants.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" He is the man you chose to have 2 children with....he can take pictures and put them up if he wants."

he didnt take the pictures i did he took those pictures of my facebook. I dont care if there his kids to i am still their mother and i still have the right to say what goes and what doesnt when it comes to them especially since he doesnt help me out with them

You have every right to not want photographs of your children in public view on places like youtube. I would probably also make sure all of your facebook is set to private and friends only then remove his ass.

Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" he didnt take the pictures i did he took those pictures of my facebook. I dont care if there his kids ... [snip!] ... i still have the right to say what goes and what doesnt when it comes to them especially since he doesnt help me out with them"

Again....does he have court ordered access or visitation?

Is he ordered to pay child support?

Quoting Unique Mama:" You have every right to not want photographs of your children in public view on places like youtube. ... [snip!] ... like youtube. I would probably also make sure all of your facebook is set to private and friends only then remove his ass."

i already did

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Again....does he have court ordered access or visitation? Is he ordered to pay child support?"

no he doesnt have court ordered anything

Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" no he doesnt have court ordered anything"

Then legally he owes you nothing.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Then legally he owes you nothing."

i dont care about oweing me anything i care about my kids pictures being on youtube

Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" i dont care about oweing me anything i care about my kids pictures being on youtube"

They are his children, too. He can have pictures of them and put them up on Youtube all he wants.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" They are his children, too. He can have pictures of them and put them up on Youtube all he wants."

Wow, you're annoying.