re: bd not following my wishes

Quoting FroggysMommy:" I dont get girls that need so much control that its all "OMG HE TOOK MY PICS OFF OF FACEBOOK A SOCIAL ... [snip!] ... with the pics. So it happens, public or not, so if you REALLY gave a damn you wouldnt put ANY pics up. Its about control."

Exactly,
First 2 years of LO's life, I wasn't with her dad.. I bitched at him for not having pictures of her on his myspace (which was what was popular at the time lol) & didn't mention a thing about her anywhere in his profile.

I get where you are coming from to an extent, my ex posted pics of my daughter (yes I said my) on his facebook they were pics I took. I asked him to make them private at least because they were public. I know I couldn't stop him from posting pics(he isn't around now yay!) but I could talk to him and at least ask him to make them private...maybe approach it calmly and ask him to make the video private, I think you can do that on youtube or something close to private. You can't control other people and what they post but you can be an adult about it and try to talk to them as such in a respectful way...in the end you have to be the bigger person for your kids.