Quoting [Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker]:" I'm playing around on my registry...and I have hated pretty much every single bed set/room decor set ... [snip!] ... smurfing death in pink and purple happiness? I could go neutral but I wanna try to get something at least a little feminine..."
I like the color combos of yellow and gray or Plum and Aqua. very pretty, very girly, but not the typical pink pink pink.
If my son were a little girl, we were going to with Gray and Aqua. I happen to like big floral prints, but there are some really nice gender neutral crib bedding in yellow and gray. If you like geometric prints or chevron, you should find something suitable.
Our son's nursery will probably be orange and aqua. That's another option, but I have found that most of the orange and aqua girls bedding is heavy in flowers.