Quoting ♥ inÍs:" So the other day I saw in a blog a mom talking about how important it is to give time to each child. ... [snip!] ... it is good and it increases bonding between mom and a child..? Or do you think it's wrong in some way? Please explain "
Quoting Veronica m6:" I think it is awesome. We are having number 6 and we make time for each. My time with my girls is when ... [snip!] ... It is great to establish and have that bond. I wish I could do more time. We also have family date night, the kids love it."
Quoting snglemama:" how would it be wrong?I think it's fantastic. I always made time for each child before I got divorced. ... [snip!] ... they'd tell you they missed the most. but, I cannot afford to hire a sitter for 3kids constantly to spend alone time with one. "
Quoting Veronica m6:" We have a 5bdrm house. We have the nursery, master, boy, and girl room. Then the final room we made ... [snip!] ... It doesn't cost a thing nor do i need a sitter to pull it off. i do the same for the boys except i don't do their hair. lol"
Quoting snglemama:" it's just not a reality for me. I only have them 50% of the time. When I get them.. they miss me. I'm ... [snip!] ... with them..suddenly they're gone half their lives. I just can't send any of them away when they want to be around me kwim? "
Quoting Veronica m6:" I can understand that."
Quoting snglemama:" it sucks that he's such a dick. I even asked if we could do nights where He gets the boys, I get ... [snip!] ... do anything that makes life easier for me, even if it's good for the kids. meanwhile.. he just drops them off at his parents!"