Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" You just gave me some hope. Mine are 18 months apart my toddler is 22 months old and my lo is 4 months old and somedays i feel like im going completely insane. I just really hope it gets better soon"
It will, I promise.
But don't get me wrong, it gets hard when they're both toddlers, but it's a different type of hard. They fight a lot and I see a lot of jealousy issues still. For example, my DS (the 3 1/2 year old) is NOT a cuddler. He was always very independent. But if he sees that his lil sis (25 months) is watching him, he'll crawl into my lap and cuddle while he's staring at her because he knows that'll make her cry. He's starting to not do that so much now, though. Now, they're working on the whole concept of sharing, because they fight over toys all the freakin time.
You will be fine. It be hard and there are times when you feel like you're pushed to the limit, but I promise, you'll be capable of so much more than you ever realized. It IS difficult and I HAVE cried into my pillow because the stress was too much and it got to me. Like I said, it will get easier once the baby actually starts doing something (like playing with toys with the older one).
Here my babbbeezz <3 from the summer <3