re: I caved.

Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" I think that's a bad way to think about it. Sure, its good to do something for your SO or whatever, ... [snip!] ... while doing it and be relaxed than hating every second and not putting any real effort into it and making it a bad experience. "

agree with this, think of it the other way around- if you found out your SO absolutely hated going down on you could you still enjoy it? would you still let him do it? if i was in that situation i would not be able to enjoy it and i could not let him do it!

if it's a case of you don't get off on it yourself over doing it (as some women on here clearly do!   ) but you don't mind doing it to please him, then no problem with that. but if it's something you really, really HATE, then... who cares, well- HE should!! you shouldnt expect your soulmate to suffer at your pleasure, it's disrespectful

Quoting xTJ:" I really enjoy giving DH them. I actually get really turned on just giving and I prefer it to receiving, ... [snip!] ... allow the person you love to be in complete control of your most intimate area.... Maybe I'm romanticising the BJ too much ha"

lol, I like the way you think!

My honest opinion i used to hate them cause i could never get my SO off but for the whole 6 weeks after our daughter i can do it great and get him off almost every time i guess it was just hard to do when i was pregnant cause i wanted to jump him not give him a bj. lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Coffee Milk:</b>" lol, I like the way you think!"</blockquote>




same! wish I could be more like that and not just when I'm pregnant and full of hormones x

Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Thankfully DH isn't pushy. Before I met DH, I use to tell guys, "If you start taking control of my mouth, ... [snip!] ... both parties. No one should feel trapped or pushed into doing it. Its intimate, and in my personal opinion, its about trust. "

i agree!