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Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Are you a smoker? As a non smoker I could not be in a relationship with someone who was. Nevermind the breath, I couldn't live in the same house with him."

Smoker, non smoker ect... if one is turned off by a kiss (no matter the reason) that is a HUGE deal breaker. That is the #1 sign that it is not the right match.

Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Are you a smoker? As a non smoker I could not be in a relationship with someone who was. Nevermind the breath, I couldn't live in the same house with him."

same!

smoking is a deal breaker with me.

Ick. I don't blame you at all op. If he's not willing to brush after every cig (which IMO you should anyway, gross) it'd be a dealbreaker for me too.