re: would i be being selfish?

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emma Mayo:</b>" the surgen said they would do it if they had ... [snip!] ... effects concerning the baby. From the actually procedur to the anesthesia and the pain management afterward. Good luck to you."

looks like its somthing i defo need to ask about.... however its really hard to decied whats for the best.. its just at the moment i dont have a clue what i should do. hence asking you guys   x and thank you for your reply.