Quoting justanothamotha:"The one thing I did do before I had my older son was I finally got to where I could accept it for what ti was & just be grateful for each day I was pregnant & each day I got to spend with my baby, even if we weren't going to get tomorrow. They still touched my life in beautiful ways & I am glad to have been on the journey even if it's a painful one."
That is really a good way of dealing with the uncertain agony that comes with each pregnancy. Thank you so much for posting this. I'm going to try very hard to remind myself of this daily when/if I become pregnant again.