Orgasms

I feel like I never have one because I'm always focusing on pleasing SO  

I want to orgasm but I just don't know how to not let my mind wander..

I feel your pain

I've never had one

Have you had one alone? That might be where you want to start.

you guys are missing out. Stick with the clit and you'll get it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blythe.:</b>" you guys are missing out. Stick with the clit and you'll get it."</blockquote>




This!

I've had one alone, but I want to enjoy one while SO and I are having sex.

Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" I've had one alone, but I want to enjoy one while SO and I are having sex."

nothings going to please your SO more then you having one, so I dont see how you are so concerned about him when thats the one thing hes missing from total pleasure

I've never had one either... Its sad  

ETA: Never had one alone either, no matter how hard i (or we) try it never happens.

For me, I can't have one from penetration alone.. I have to have a little clit stimulation with it. Although, SO has hit some spots that leave me pretty freaking close.

Quoting Princess Lin ♥:" For me, I can't have one from penetration alone.. I have to have a little clit stimulation with it. Although, SO has hit some spots that leave me pretty freaking close."

  It usually happens when we're having a quickie and he cums right when he's hitting the right spot  

Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:"   It usually happens when we're having a quickie and he cums right when he's hitting the right spot  "

Yep!   Sucks.

Quoting Princess Lin ♥:" Yep!   Sucks."

Hopefully we master it soon  

Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" Hopefully we master it soon  "

Poor SO beats himself up cause once I'm about to, he is done.. he's practicing his "self control" as he calls it haha.

Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" I feel like I never have one because I'm always focusing on pleasing SO   I want to orgasm but I just don't know how to not let my mind wander.."

It's very rare I have one from just intercourse. Usually when I'm on tip, I can. I pretty much always use toys during, and that'll do the trick.  

Quoting Princess Lin ♥:" Poor SO beats himself up cause once I'm about to, he is done.. he's practicing his "self control" as he calls it haha."

LOL! SO is pretty good with pausing himself from being done but when it is a quickie.. noway in hell is he good with the pause