Quoting FutureMommyof2:" No and thank goodness Bc that had to be the biggest turnoff ever."
Quoting regina_margot:" why can't guys understand that? this ruined my first relationship. i totally loved him and everything, ... [snip!] ... but a few years of whining and pissing and moaning every time i said no.... finally completely turned me off. forever."
Quoting Addi's Momma:" I worry about that happening in my relationship. I already hardly want to have sex with him. I like ... [snip!] ... song and dance I would rather not even have sex. He was sweet in the beginning. He actually tried and was nice and sweet."
Quoting regina_margot:" there may be some way to break the cycle. i don't know how, tho. in fairness, we're all different in the beginning, before we get jaded and busy."