Quoting lilsoph:" He was only doing worksheets because it is all he would do. He refused to read (alone or with me), refused ... [snip!] ... the therapist until next week because of the holidays so i cant ask her, so i was looking for ideas that would help both of us"
I would just back off until you see the therapist
My LO is 4 and not in any kind of preschool because my district doesn't offer public preK. She'll start kinder in the fall
She sees an OT once a week, but even that will be stopped cause she has met her goals.
PreK is optional. You don't have to do anything with him until Kinder. I would just let him be for now, until you speak with the therapist
And if it helps, my daughter is suspected of having Asbergers as well (just waiting for the testing appt)
Can you get him into a sport or club? If he sees other kids doing something, it might prompt him to follow suit