Quoting Elijah'S Wife:" High Risk all in general sex is a No... I see 3 high risks OB's and all of them told my Fiancè and me ... [snip!] ... I didn't know bout it either till they all told me =( which sucks cause my hormones be over drive and I'm def frustrated"
Yeah I'm pretty high risk all over the place too. My local hospital's L&D actually refused to see me last time I was pregnant because I was 'too high risk'. My MFM got really PO'd about that too. I mean for me, I have a cerclage and PTL and type 1 diabetes. It's a no brainer if there's something fake holding my cervix shut, probably a good idea not to stir the pot. ;)
One time I wanted to know the gender of my 2nd baby and I asked the U/S tech if she could tell what the sex was. She misunderstood me and got all offended and told me i should ask the dr those types of questions. My MFM came in and explained that I should know by now that I can't have sex and an U/S tech is not the right person to ask. I of course looked at her like she was crazy until i figured out wth they were talking about. lol It was a boy. I should have just assumed it was. Dh only makes blue sperm i think.