anybody else...

i feel really bad because i dont like being touched and i get super annoyed with it, especially when jake is just constantly touching me, i dont care if people touch my stomach occasionally but there is no need to shake it or anything like that and it seriously annoys me. and on top of that i just hate to cuddle at all unless its with my puppy or kitten then im perfectly fine but when jake tries to cuddle with me i hate it and get super annoyed and get pissed off really quickly when he tries, and i feel bad because he gets upset and pissed that it bothers me but i cant really figure out why it bothers me and he tells me that im the only person in the world like this, but my friend skyler was the same way when she was pregnant. has anyone gone through or is going through this as well? and how did you adjust or what did you do?

I am NOT a cuddler. And it's gotten wayyyyy worse in my pregnancy. I literally get pissed off if DH even pokes me. We haven't had sex in 6 months. I really really reallyyyyyyyyy don't want too. I know it's bad to deprive him like that. And I know he probably feels lonely. But I can't help it, I guess these hormones are making me crazy. Idk what to tell ya. I just keep telling DH sry and that I can't help it  

Quoting V ♥ E:" I am NOT a cuddler. And it's gotten wayyyyy worse in my pregnancy. I literally get pissed off if DH even ... [snip!] ... it, I guess these hormones are making me crazy. Idk what to tell ya. I just keep telling DH sry and that I can't help it  "

i cant stand even the thought of sex, its literally been sense august if not before and idk why, and i used to love to cuddle and just be close but now i literally just want to punch him in the face half the time to get him to leave me alone :/ and he always complains about how i deprive him and i feel horrible i do, but i just cant and ive explained everything in every way i can think of and he still gets frustrated with me :/

I would rather put knives in my ears than be cuddled by Tom most days. Some days it's nice.
Thankfully, he understands by now and when I go to throw an elbow in his chest for cuddling me, he asks if I want something to eat and tells me I'm cute, lol.

Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:" I would rather put knives in my ears than be cuddled by Tom most days. Some days it's nice. Thankfully, ... [snip!] ... and when I go to throw an elbow in his chest for cuddling me, he asks if I want something to eat and tells me I'm cute, lol."

thats kinda how jake was at first but now he is like "alright this is seriously getting old" and then turns over and ignores me until i fall asleep or he does

<blockquote><b>Quoting Veronika Karn:</b>" thats kinda how jake was at first but now he is like "alright this is seriously getting old" and then turns over and ignores me until i fall asleep or he does"</blockquote>




Is this your guys' first baby? The lack of sex or general intimacy is probably making him irritable. Just take one for the team, lay there and let him do his thing.
Sex is SO incredibly uncomfortable, but I let Tom let it out like twice a week because I know if he didn't, he'd get grumpy and wouldn't be as nice to me, lol.

Now I'm the complete opposite except I don't like someone poking or shaking my belly. My hubby won't cuddle and hasn't this entire pregnancy which sucks hahah When I'm not pregnant I'm not a cuddle person... stupid hormones !

Quoting Veronika Karn:" i cant stand even the thought of sex, its literally been sense august if not before and idk why, and ... [snip!] ... i do, but i just cant and ive explained everything in every way i can think of and he still gets frustrated with me :/ "

DH stopped trying.
Not only do I not want to be touched, AT ALL...
But I feel so fat and gross anyway.
I just emphasized that it's MY body and I don't owe him anything if he gets pissed enough. I remind him that I might throw up on him with the motion from sex   and my stomach is sore and my body hurts and that's it not about him. I am growing his child and he needs to give me a break.

I am trying to touch him once during the day. If it's just touching his arm, or when I leave to go somewhere I kiss him goodbye. I NEVER kiss him goodnight, godforbid he thinks its game time..   But I'm trying to show him I still care about him. I don't hate him or resent him, I'm just so hormonal, I have no other explanation than that   It kinda sucks  

Quoting Elizabeth 0315:" Now I'm the complete opposite except I don't like someone poking or shaking my belly. My hubby won't ... [snip!] ... cuddle and hasn't this entire pregnancy which sucks hahah When I'm not pregnant I'm not a cuddle person... stupid hormones !"

I'm the same way! I always kind of hated cuddling, but now it's totally different. Although, my SO is the only one I'm ok with touching my belly. Everybody else it's like, yeah, don't freaking touch me.

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" DH stopped trying. Not only do I not want to be touched, AT ALL... But I feel so fat and gross anyway. ... [snip!] ... about him. I don't hate him or resent him, I'm just so hormonal, I have no other explanation than that   It kinda sucks  "

see and thats my deal kinda because jakes like "you just dont care anymore" "i wish you still cared" and so i try to be nice and talk to him and cuddle with him tell im like okay this just isnt working, but then he gets mad at me when i tell him not to touch me or leave my ass alone and he gets pissed and is like you just dont smurfing care anymore i want the old you back, you were nice and fun now your just whatever. and its like seriously i dont know what to do because of it and i try but nothing works.