Quoting Achelois:" Yeesh, that sounds hideous. I'm sorry. Is there a chance if you found a supportive birth attendant & ... [snip!] ... and out - vitamin E, massage etc? I suppose it depends on how much scar tissue you have since it's not very elastic stuff."
I suffered ALOT of damage in that area... The real question is, is it really worth the vaginal delivery. Trust me, I want nothing more then another natural delivery, but after almost losing my daughter and the crappy 5 months of surgeries, recovery and doctors/specialist appt, it was completely awful.. I couldn't really enjoy my baby girl in those 1st few months and it scares me to death to think that I may end up in the same situation. So I will see what the Dr thinks, but I was pretty much told no more vaginal deliveries for me.